Keeping good medical records for your family is one simple and possibly lifesaving thing you can do to avoid medical mix-ups such as allergic reactions to misdiagnosed medications.
By maintaining up-to-date records of your family health history, illnesses, medications, immunizations, etc., other members of the family or caregivers can refer to records when there is a need to know on-the-spot information to assist in diagnosis.
Ten Simple Things You Should Do Each Time You Visit the Doctor
- Know your family medical history. Ask your parents and your in-laws about their medical history and keep good records. Look at your past notes about medications, allergies, growth and development to refresh your memory.
- Do your homework first. Know what immunizations your children might be due for. Read about children’s health issues or concerns using a reliable Web site or book. Talk to friends— you’ll be amazed how many people have “a friend’s neighbor’s sister” who had a similar medical condition that you can learn from. Know what options you have.
- Write down your questions in advance of your appointment. Start thinking about an upcoming appointment about one to two weeks prior to the date. As you go about your day, think of a question you want to know, and simply write it down. As more questions come, write them down. This way you are prepared and can have a more successful partnership with your doctor. There is nothing worse than getting home after an appointment and then remembering that important question you meant to ask, but forgot!
- Listen to your children. Watch for changes in behavior or complaints of pain, strange feelings or any other unusual changes.
- Take good notes during and afterwards. When you get home, do a mental checklist of what you spoke about and make sure you wrote it all down. As weeks and months pass, your memory of what was said fades and keeping notes jogs your memory.
- Know where your health and immunization cards are. Keep them together with your medical records at all times. You don’t want to show up without them or, worse, be frantically searching for them in an emergency.
- Plan to have a long wait. You never know how long it will be before your doctor sees you, especially if he gets called out for an unexpected emergency. If you have small kids, bring lots of nut-free snacks, beverages, books and toys. It’s better to play with your own toys and not with the ones in your doctor’s office that could have little Sammy’s runny nose dripping all over them!
- Understand your medications. Ask about possible side effects and watch for them. If there is a one percent chance of Sarah getting a weird rash— you can bet Sarah will get that weird rash. Phone your doctor and/or the pharmacist in the event of a strange reaction and read that handy insert that many pharmacies now give you about the medication you are taking. Keep it with your medical records for future reference and write down what the doctor prescribed.
- Keep your important phone numbers handy.
- Make sure your spouse/partner knows what’s going on. Share your detailed notes and medical information with your partner, especially if it’s possible that he/she will have to take a family member to an appointment. This way, if he/she does have to take the kids in a pinch, your spouse will have all the information at his/her fingertips.
The more familiar a family is with the process of surgery, the smoother the process is for the child and the less upsetting it becomes for the parents.
Here are a few things that parents should do to enable their children to get optimum care from their doctors.
Seeing healthcare providers on a yearly basis ensures the well-being of your child. Remember: you are your child’s biggest advocate.